I've been a single for more than two years, and I always thing dating and marriage cannot be decided by myself. I like to tell my friends that I'm destined to live alone. When I was used to loneliness, something surprising happened to me. My life changed that way.
Some of my friends like trans dating, and they introduced some trans girls to me. We became good friends very quickly. As time wen by, I found that trans girls are better than some girls that I've date before, they are easy to get on with, they are considerate and thoughtful. I started to communicate with them deeply to know more about trans girls. Like I always say, love comes without warning. I was deeply attracted by one of the trans girl. She is totally different from other transgender girls, she changed my opinions on trans girls. Although I was ready enough to date and have a long-term relationship with the trans girl, I met many difficulties on the way to date the trans girl. We are already friends, but I felt nervous on the first dating. It was a cold day, so we met in a coffee bar. I didn't know what to talking about at first, I didn't know why. She broke the ice by talking about something happened when we first met each several months ago. From this experience I know that how important the topic is on the first transgender dating. So, if you want to date a trans girl, I suggest you to list some interesting topics to talking about on dating. After breaking the ice, we started a deep conversation. I wanted to know more about her, so I started to ask questions about her transition. I didn't know that it is rude to ask transgender people any questions about transition. However, she shared her stories with me, from her past to now. Until now, I feel so sorry for what I did on the first dating. I should have known more about trans dating before dating with her. I suggest everyone who wants to date trans girls to have a deep understanding on transgender people and trans dating, like what should you do or not do when date a trans person. Now,we are in a love relationship, and I introduced her to all my friends and families. I'm so lucky that all my friends and families can really accept our love relationship.
I'm willing to share my story here, because I hope everyone can change their opinions on transgender people. In fact, I've never think about dating a trans girl, but love comes without warning. According to my personal experience, not everyone is lucky enough to meet a perfect partner in the whole life, so don't refuse to love and to be loved, no matter who they are. Once you meet the right one for dating and love relationship, grasp the opportunity. Trans dating is not as what you thought before, trans dating can be pure and safe if you meet the right person.