I've saw many articles mentioned the importance of the first dating, but the second dating is as important as the first dating in my minds. If you are invited to the second dating, and don't know how to plan for the dating, just follow my steps here.
You've have a general understanding on each other through the first dating, so the second dating is an opportunity to enhance the relationship, it couldn't better if you can establish a long term relationship with your partner through the trans dating. However, everything is based on you are the right one for each other. If it is the one who likes you, but you don't want to meet anymore, refuse the invitation, because you don't need to spend your time with the wrong person, even you are a transgender woman. If you are sure it is the one you want to have a long term relationship, then start to plan for your dating. The dating place should be different from the first dating, in fact, not only the dating place, but keep everything different from the first dating. People like something new and special, it is so bad to date someone in the same place with the same clothing. The same as the first dating, you should also ask your partner for advice before choosing the dating place. If you met your partner indoor the first time, the second dating place could be outdoors. If you met each other for a dinner the first time, you could plan some activities for the second dating. If you dressed a formal suit at the first dating, you could dress casually for the second transgender dating. In a word, present a new side to your partner. What to talk about at the second dating? Topics for the second dating could me more interesting and closer. Sharing some of your stories with your partner if possible, this is a great way to get close to your partner. It couldn't be better if you have the common experience with your partner. You cannot disclose your personal information at the first dating, but you can try to tell your partner more about you and your life at the second dating. However, don't force yourself to do anything you don't want.