All transgender people are under great pressure in their lives, such as pressure of work, life, dating and others. So, I want to talk about the pressure of dating here. For transgender people who want to find transgender dating partners, the greatest pressure ahead of them is how to tell other people that they are trans. Being transgender, dating is always a difficult task, because they cannot be accepted by some people around them, and not everyone is willing to have a long-term relationship with them.
In recent years, trans dating seems more and more popular, while serious trans relationships are also not easy to establish. If you are a trans person, it is a stressful thing to tell other people that you are trans. I met many handsome guys who are interested in me, when I told them that I'm trans, they were not going to accept me. As a beautiful trans woman, there are many chances to meet coll and handsome guys, but it is not easy to male sure whether they can accept trans people. As an experienced online dater, I've run into these situations for more than one time. But I'm always confident and understanding. I don't think I should ts date someone who cannot accept me, and I'm sure I can meet the right one. I've met a man last month, I thought he was the right one for me before told him that I'm trans. I didn't want to hide the truth, it only because I didn't know how to tell him in the right way. When I told him that I'm trans eventually, everything stopped here. I was so regret that I didn't tell him when we meet each other for the first time. That was a waste of our time.
Before transitioning, I would never tell other people I'm trans, because I wanted to wait until my transition process is finished and then I can be the one I want. I don't think there is anything wrong with my opinion. By this way, I can feel totally comfortable with who I am and date someone I like. Now, I'm a trans woman with transition surgery and treatment. I choose to tell my partner that I'm trans woman before ts dating in real life, because I don't want to cause any misunderstandings between us. Why it is the greatest pressure for transgender people to tell other people who they are, I think the biggest reason is that they are afraid of being rejected or not accepted by other people. I used to be one of them. But later, I'm quite open-minded to accept the reality that it is so common if someone cannot accept me or even hate me. As a transgender woman, I will never lose the hope to meet my right life partner. I have the right to love and be loved.
No matter you are a trans person or not, don't put too much pressure on yourself. If you are a trans person, just enjoy your life, and enjoy being trans.